Published inArt Is Fear·3 days agoWhat do you do?“What is your job?” asked a new friend as we sipped wine in the Virginia countryside on a beautiful summer afternoon. My job used to be so much easier to explain when I could say, “Lawyer.” He didn’t mean the question in the typical DC way, often meant to size…Politics2 min readPolitics2 min read
Published inArt Is Fear·Sep 15A cat called DixieWhat stories remain untold on the National Mall? — [This story was written in response to an exhibit on the National Mall that asked, what stories remain untold on the National Mall?] Shortly after the 2016 election, I began inviting people who voted for Trump to my house for dinner. …Politics3 min readPolitics3 min read
Published inArt Is Fear·Aug 8How are the arts transformative?The last two plays I have seen were written by Asian American playwrights and starred Asian American actors. The cast for one of the plays was 100% Asian American. I have read six books this year written by Asian American authors. I binge watched two shows starring Asian American female…Theatre5 min readTheatre5 min read
Published inArt Is Fear·Aug 2Cocoon of privilege“Do you feel transformed?” asked a friend after I returned from India. People envision India as a mystical land in which people make pilgrimages to ashrams and yogic retreats in scenic spots. My idea of a spiritual quest involves art…Travel7 min readTravel7 min read
Published inArt Is Fear·Jul 31Hi, I have a problemI’ve purged my closets of unwanted clothing multiple times over the past ten years. I’ve donated many bags of clothing to charity and sold many items at a local consignment store and online. …Fashion5 min readFashion5 min read
Published inArt Is Fear·Jul 21Monsoon at the White LotusThe Maldives is an archipelago composed of 26 coral atolls and over 1,000 islands stretching over 500 miles across the deep blue depths of the Indian Ocean. Each island is encircled by pristine white sandy beaches, crystal-clear turquoise waters glistening under a tropical sun, and abundant marine life teeming just…Travel4 min readTravel4 min read
Published inArt Is Fear·Jul 17Searching for the ghee spot in MumbaiBefore heading to India, I acquired a prescription for “traveler’s stomach” and a two-week supply of Pepto Bismol tablets. My plan was to…Travel4 min readTravel4 min read
Published inArt Is Fear·Jul 13Retail Ramblings in MumbaiBefore setting off for India, multiple people told me to prepare for great shopping. I’m not gonna lie, I love to shop, especially in small boutiques where I look for unique clothing made by local designers. I’ve had to purchase cheap luggage on more than one occasion in countries around…India7 min readIndia7 min read
Published inArt Is Fear·Jul 11Travels in India with Renee ZellwegerI used almost all my United miles so I could fly to India in business class. As I nestled into plush slippers and a snug blankie, one of…Travel5 min readTravel5 min read
Published inArt Is Fear·Jun 29You were asking for itI’ve led several conversations over the past year about exploring ways to create a flourishing society. In preparing for those dialogues, I came across research suggesting that in order to maintain well-being, people require a ratio of three positive to every negative interaction. Why do we need so many more…Flourishing3 min readFlourishing3 min read